Our Relationship

an overview...

Dating Dates

(nice alliteration)

Shows how close we are to big things happening, and sometimes its nice to have a little something to look forward to. You know I'll try my best to make whatever is happening here the best it could be, at least by being there with you. and maybe with this I wont forget...

  • Blue are general dates, like global celebrations or important dates for our relationship,
  • Yellow events are all about you,
  • And purple is the same but for me.

Card History

I thought that it'd be nice to have a history of all the cards we've made for each other. Now I wanted to do more with this - like scan in old cards - but I didn't have the time, so for now it's just the most recent card for your birthday, but there will be more to come.

Lucy's 18th Birthday
by Tymur
on 2025-10-07

Hi my (birthday) baby,

Happy birthday!! Today is an amazing day, where we (mostly you) get to celebrate all the amazing things that you have achieved over your 18 years of life: the many days which you made brighter with your unending, radiating flame of joy and pure love; all the funny moments you’ve shared with your friends (incl. me ofc); and the unfortunately-too-many challenges you’ve had to overcome to get where you are.

The sum of all that leads to the simply incredible person you have become today, and I’m so so glad I get to be by your side on this very special day, to celebrate all that has happened throughout your life. Although I could make an argument, that such an amazing person like yourself deserves to have a special day every day (even if that defeats the point of it being special), I’m just glad to have another excuse to highlight all your best qualities, and inject another much-needed dose of unconditional love and support.

I truly hope you have an amazing day today, in-spite of whatever uni or life might end up throwing at you, the volume of congratulations and love (and presents) you will receive on this day, plus the sheer hype of today being your 18th birthday (!!) should result in you having one of the best days of your life. And if not, just tell me and I’ll always find a way to cheer you up.

Have a great day today my love, you deserve it, you have deserved it every day you wake up and keep going. So enjoy it to the fullest, and I’ll try to make sure that that happens.

Love you loads, my (birthday) baby, Happy 18th birthday!

  • As always, your love

Our Messages: Overview

I (very cutely) decided to make a small overview of our messages, so here's how this works:

  • Each message is very fancily (and sometimes inaccurately) divided up into words, which are all counted up.
  • Blue shows how many times the word was said in total, and the progress bar is how many times that word was said out of the total number of words,
  • Yellow text is youuuu, and the progress bar is how many times you said it out of the total,
  • And purple text is the same but for me.

You can use the controls on the bottom to navigate through the pages, and you can type in the number of the page in the middle one if you really want to see what was said on page 19.

Our Messages: Statistics

Total messages:
48292
Your messages:
25679
My messages:
22613
Total words said:
346539
Your words said:
147436
My words said:
199103

Continuing on from the overview, I found a couple interesting stats:

  • I used the word "js" 1423 times, you used it a solid 1...
  • The longest message was 167 words , and 765 characters. Predictably it was written by me (apologizing), so try to remeber or even guess for what:
Read the message
baby ik, and i rly miss the time we have together to. i rly do not like working this much and being away from u this long, which is why i do rly enjoy the times we can talk a bit (like yesterday, which to me was pretty damn fun).

and u abs do not bother me when u reach out baby, not now, and not ever, so i js want to be as explicit as possible in the fact that u are not being too needy, nor too pushy, nor putting any undue amount of pressure on me. when im in the flow of working i tend not to like reach out/talk much at all, which is smth i rly want to stop doing so i can properly balance work time and me/us time.

basically baby: i wanna keep talking to u (even when im working/studying), i want to talk to u more than i currently do, and i love u very much

Press the title / arrow again to collapse the message.

Our Messages: Archive

You were worried that if you updated your phone, you'd lose all our messages, so I tried to make an archive

Score Counter

Your score:
24
My score:
14

This was just so easy to make, I had to do it. Also now you know why every time I asked you what the score was. and I still forgot...